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Comments on Ha'azina Tefilati: Giving until it hurts





Updated: 2014-03-13T20:55:14.183-05:00

 



The party was hard but I made it through. Shortly,...

2007-09-06T22:41:00.000-05:00

The party was hard but I made it through. Shortly, b'ezrat HaShem, I will post about what happened because it was everything I feared and far more than I could have hoped.



I agree with Jeremy. Maybe it would be easier to ...

2007-08-19T23:13:00.000-05:00

I agree with Jeremy. Maybe it would be easier to talk to one of the unpregnant girls. Or maybe, if it's hard to talk for fear the words won't come out right (that's what always holds me back), just print out the post and say something like, "I wrote this the other night and I thought I'd feel better if I shared it."

Honestly, I think it's sad that you feel even a tinge of guilt over mourning your loss. It's so fresh a wound that I would only expect it to burn like hell when rubbed! Don't try to convince yourself that you're being selfish/ uncaring/ or whatever for feeling your pain. It's there.

I do think it's wonderful that you have a group of "mom girls" to hang out with. I'm even a bit jealous :). Good for you for going out with them and having a nice time.

I do hope you share your thoughts with one of them, at least so you could share the burden. Even if it means that you'll attend anyway, at least someone will be there to give you a kind, understanding look or a friendly hand-squeeze at all the right moments.



Are you close enough with any of the other ladies ...

2007-08-16T14:16:00.000-05:00

Are you close enough with any of the other ladies to share with them what you just wrote? If so, I am sure they would understand if you didn't want to be there. You are still in mourning, and it will take some time. I think most of them would understand that.
Whatever you decide to do, I pray that the G-D of peace will reign in your heart.



Rivkah... That was a very big of you thing to do. ...

2007-08-15T11:47:00.000-05:00

Rivkah... That was a very big of you thing to do. I hope this party passes pleasantly and with less pain for you than you are feeling now.