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Singles Dating Tip: Learning How to Argue and Fight

Thu, 03 Mar 2016 17:58:57 +0000

The best dating tip we could give Christian singles is to learn how to fight. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating […]

Singles and Holidays: How to Survive the Holiday Blues as a Single Person

Sun, 06 Dec 2015 02:49:03 +0000

Singles and Holidays don’t always mix. That’s why learning how to survive and thrive during the holiday season is an important thing for singles to learn. Since holidays are marketed for families, singles who are alone are often made to feel like outsiders crashing a party. Talk about the holiday blues!   How Singles Prepare […]

Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date

Thu, 08 Oct 2015 11:54:24 +0000

Some single Christians have no problems attracting a man or woman to date. Especially when using an online dating service like eHarmony.  However, attracting the right man or woman to date is often a separate issue. By the right man or woman to date, we mean that special person with whom you may wish to […]

Pathological Liars: Are You Dating a Liar?

Tue, 29 Sep 2015 02:34:56 +0000

Pathological liars are so good at lying that I pity the poor soul who is dating one, whether through an online Christian service like eHarmony, or some other way. What makes a pathological liar so different from every other big fat liar in a dating relationship? Psychologists feel the answer is found in a paradox: […]

Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys

Thu, 24 Sep 2015 03:40:13 +0000

Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: […]

Another Rebound Dating Debacle

Sun, 20 Sep 2015 11:41:40 +0000

The following  article was by one of our readers: I entered into a rebound relationship with a woman who had only been divorced for 3 months after 16 years of marriage. Very stupid move on my part. She assured me that they had been separated for 18 months and she was completely over him. Not […]

Adults Dating for Sex-An American Idol

Sun, 13 Sep 2015 11:00:34 +0000

Did I get your attention? Yes, adult sex dating is an American Idol of USA society. Dating single adults have put sex on a pedestal, and are bowing down to it daily. Sex has become the cure all for many dating adults who are lonely and looking for more meaning in their lives. Unfortunately, many […]

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Abusive Relationships-Are You Dating an Abuser?

Sun, 13 Sep 2015 10:34:28 +0000

Abusive relationships are not uncommon among dating single Christians. Some singles have been in an abusive relationship, and know the pain that goes with it. Sadly, other single Christians reading this article right now are presently in an abusive relationship, but may not know it or be in denial over it. While in the rest […]

40 Somethings and 50 Somethings Dating

Mon, 07 Sep 2015 12:40:50 +0000

40 something and 50 something Baby Boomers are currently using eHarmony Dating Service like almost as much as the average 20 something singles, who was the group that brought internet dating into the mainstream seven years ago. More telling is that 40 something and 50 something daters also make up the fastest growing demographic of […]

Single Parents Mingle Tips

Sat, 05 Sep 2015 11:11:12 +0000

Are you looking for places where Single Parent Mingle? Well, you’re not alone. Many Christian single parents are looking to mingle with others just like them. A lot of Christian singles have written asking for some single parent mingle tips, not just for dating but also for friendships. In response several of my Single Parent […]

Catholic Singles Who Love Jesus

Fri, 04 Sep 2015 11:37:43 +0000

There are multiple thousands of Catholic Singles using Christian dating sites who love Jesus on a personal level. I should know because I know many Catholic singles like this. These types of Catholic singles would feel more comfortable worshiping the Lord with evangelicals in an Alpha Course or Billy Graham Crusade, than with their nominal, […]

Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs

Mon, 31 Aug 2015 04:07:23 +0000

What are some signs of a good Christian dating relationship? What qualities would you look for in the “right one” for you as a Christian single? Generally, the following list of signs should be present in your Christian dating partner if you are considering a lifelong commitment in marriage. Good Christian Dating Relationships Your dating […]

Christian Singles Secrets

Sat, 01 Aug 2015 02:45:28 +0000

Many Christian singles walk around with the burden of carrying personal secrets bottled up deep in their hearts. Whether the secrets are unconfessed sexual sins, painful memories, regrets, shame-filled experiences or totally whacked out thoughts, God did not design us to deal with such raw issues by ourselves. From the Garden, the Lord created mankind […]

Dating Advice: When to Dump a Dating Relationship

Sat, 01 Aug 2015 01:10:04 +0000

Most Christian singles dating advice experts suggest that the primary purpose of a dating relationship is to determine whether or not the relationship is a match that willl lead toward marriage. The problem is that many singles stay in potentially harmful dating relationships they should have ended long ago.  Overstaying a Dating Relationship Whether the […]

Stress Reducers for Single Parents

Fri, 31 Jul 2015 17:53:00 +0000

Stress reducers for single parents? That sounds great considering the many stress related symptoms some Christian single parents live with daily. Let’s see, there’s financial stress, job stress, dating stress, single parenting stress, custody and child support stress. Ugh! I’m getting stressed out and anxious just thinking about it all! As single Christian parents, it […]

NJ Easter Egg Hunt 2015

Sun, 22 Mar 2015 00:29:32 +0000

Join Oasis church for Easter Sunday Church and an Easter Hunt for your kids at 2 separate locations.   2015 NJ Easter Hunt Locations: Oasis-Union County at  at The Gran Centurions at 440 Madison Hill Rd in Clark at both 9:00am & 11:00am The worship time will go on under a big top tent on the […]

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Single Parents Podcast-Hope for Single Parents

Sat, 21 Jun 2014 04:14:30 +0000

Single parents, especially those with joint custody, can often feel discouraged and stressed out when thinking about their daily dose of responsibilities. A Christian single parent friend of mine says she sometimes feels like “a gerbil running round and round on a wheel, with no end in sight.” If you’re a single parent reading this […]

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Honestly In Relationships

Wed, 06 Nov 2013 00:21:25 +0000

This week, pastor Dave speaks on Exodus 20:16 – “Do not give false testimony against your neighbor.”  Pastor Dave takes a thorough look at the meaning of the verse and examines the way God desires us to live.  God hates lying because He is the Source of truth. In fact, Jesus used that very word […]

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