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Dating and Relationship: Your way to a beautiful life



Updated: 2018-04-16T04:38:20.363-07:00

 



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2008-12-24T17:48:22.218-08:00

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Your Ex is Dating Someone Else

2008-08-13T22:56:22.430-07:00

After you have been dumped, it can be hard to get over your ex. You try hard to convince them to give you a second chance so when you are doing all this, it can be rather difficult to see them dating someone else, moving on in their life without you in it. You can either do first; you can fly off the handle like a nut or you can keep it together and try not to show any emotion about it. There are several tips to help you deal with this blow to your ego.

Remember to relax and take some deep breaths. You have to understand that this is not the end of the world. When a breakup occurs, it's normal for them to date other people. You may not see it but it really does help you. So keep calm about their dating other people.

Try to remember that ninety percent of those rebound relationships typically do not last. They are usually taken up to relief some stress. They are generally no connections there although you may think there is. Often times, these relationships end before they can really get started.

However, this relationship tends to be a way to relief the stress that comes along with a terrible breakup. It's also a chance for a person to pull himself back together. If your relationship was very serious, those feelings of passion and life don't just go away when times are hard. No, he or she may have dumped you because things got muddled and the bumps in the road were much easier to see then the better times. That doesn't mean he or she doesn't love you anymore. So what should you do to convince them to give you a second chance?

Give them some space they need to think. Let them live their lives without you for some time even if this means they are dating someone else. He or she still has feelings to get a grasp on. They need to feel like they can move on in life without you but you also want them to realize that like isn't worth living without you in it. Your ex can't do that with you around. He or she can feel this when they find themselves open to what people think of their flaws and problems.

While you are letting him or her work on their life, you can also do the same for you. You can work on yourself while they are doing the same. Before long, the agony of being without you is unbearable and having you back in their life sounds better than ever. If you want them to give you a second chance, make them see how important you are by not being there for them.

You don't have to put a lot of effort into getting their attention but date other people yourself. By dating other people, whether they know it or not; a way to soften them. Remember if you want them to give you a second chance, you need to show them how important you are from afar even though they're dating someone else now.

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Dating a Bossy Girl

2008-08-13T22:54:51.336-07:00

Does your girlfriend boss you around? Do you like her some of the time, love her once in a while, but hate to be with her when she is bossy? What brought you to this predicament?Many people who breakup with a former lover or spouse often meet and even marry the first person they date before they are fully recovered from their breakup. If this happened to you, then you had no time to discover: who you were, what you wanted in a new partner, and who your new girlfriend really was.It is easy to meet someone, feel some level of chemistry, and think you are in love. Especially when you are needy. Lots of projection of who you want her to be, denial of the obvious danger signs, and illusions happen when you feel abandoned and betrayed. It's a sad situation but a common human error that happens over and over. If you keep dating "bossy" or if you move on looking for another relationship, take a look at:1. Running AwayDo you want to run away from the bossiness? If you leave any relationship suddenly, without talking it through with your partner, you will be walking through your life incomplete. You will take all the unresolved issues the two of you had and carry them into your next relationship. Find a counselor and do the work now. Learn everything you can. Take a look at who you are attracted to, what your relationship patterns are, and what parts of your parent's relationship you are recreating.2. Problems with boundariesDo you let other people boss you around? Do you understand boundaries and how to use them? If you are being bossed around, you may not grasp how you are allowing it. If your girlfriend won't go to counseling with you, go alone. This is how you save your next partnership before it begins.3. Looking for LoveDo you put up with bossiness because you want to be loved? Almost everyone will sacrifice a lot of intolerable stuff in order to have a mate. Men are especially vulnerable to falling into another woman's arms right after a breakup. However, without down time and growth time, you will find you have fallen into the desperation trap. The point is this: your problems are not what SHE is doing to you. Your problems come from what YOU are not doing for you. Unfortunately, fear speaks louder than good sense. Fear of being alone can drive people to disastrous choices. Find the answers to what would make your life happy. Do this before you meet someone.4. Defining your LifeTake a time out from being bossed and build a new foundation. You need to have a hold on the following: finances, career, health, friends, and a clear idea of your values. When these bricks are under you and you are excited about life, you will be able to choose someone who is right. Until then, you will be looking for someone to make you feel better.When you meet someone and have a rush of good feelings, you may think you have found the answers to your problems. However, that rush wears off if you haven't handled your foundation. Then, you think your unhappiness is her fault. It's no one's fault, but it is your responsibility to get your life in order. It means that the path to your fulfillment is yours to travel.Learn how to give yourself comfort, find friends to hang out with, and live your life in a way that makes you proud. Do the above-and no one can boss you around.Visit http://www.tonjaweimer.com Or http://www.singlesdatingtips.com for more tips, skills, and insight on dating, relationships, singles, and love. Subscribe to our Free Savvy Dating Newsletter from master single's coach, life coach, and syndicated columnist, Tonja Weimer. Copyright 2006, Tonja Weimer. (Please note source if reprinting this article.)Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tonja_WeimerClick Here! [...]



Creative and Fun Dating Ideas for Couples!

2007-11-21T08:29:24.154-08:00


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Dating is natural and desirable to all couples and even singles who want to be in love. Sure, dating can be fun BUT the question is ARE YOU ABLE TO COME UP WITH CREATIVE AND FUN DATING IDEAS?

If you are single and want to impress your date and secure high chances of him/her to go out with you for future dates,

OR

If you and your partner have been together long in a relationship and your dating life is getting stale and dull in the relationship,

For those mentioned above and you are guilty of it, don’t fret as HOPE is still around. Dating can be made fun and memorable, with some creative thinking to break out of your comfort zone in your dating world. Dating need not be expensive that burns a hole in your pocket. Just throw in some creative imagination or with some little thought, you can turn your normal date routine into something exciting or fresh for a change.

The following are some easy ideas for you start coming up with creative and fun dating ideas that does not need you to wreck your brains over it.

1) Do something you and your partner have never done before together, like taking up sports classes or exercise together regularly.

2) You can try asking around other dating couples and you can have an idea of how other dating couples do on dates. You’ll realize how some couples take the effort and the extra mile to spice up things in their relationship. You might come across fun dating and creative ideas for your relationship too!

3) Go double dating! Whoever said dating must be confined to a couple only? You will realize that you will be able to do much more activities together with other couples too. 4 brains are better than 2 right?

Still at a loss? Need more tips for more creative fun-dating ideas?

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Dating Don'ts For Guys

2007-11-18T09:04:03.881-08:00

The fact that guys can be fairly clueless on the first date is of no surprise to anyone. Everybody knows that men and women oftentimes don't understand each other, and it's really no surprise that men would be left with many first date questions. Do they let the girl make the first move, or should they go for it themselves? What exactly is it that women want on a first date? To figure this out, let's take a look inside a woman's mind.The first thing you have to realize is that you're going to have to make sure that your date knows you are interested in them. Girls can have a tendency to get worried and think that you might not like them if you don't adequately show your interest, and this isn't something you want. The problem? Men and women display interest in completely different ways, and guys tend to try to show their interest in ways that girls don't take very well. You have to remember to put yourself in her shoes, and to help you with that, I'm going to go through some common mistakes men make on the first date.We've established that girls want to be shown interest, but not just any kind will do. The first mistake a lot of guys make is to express that interest physically. Men are physical creatures, and sometimes we can forget that women are different. Look at it from her perspective: She wants to know that you genuinely have interest in her. Now, most all guys have some interest in her body, and if she gave them a chance, they'd express that. So if that's all you're doing, then she has no reason to believe that you have any more interest in her than any other guy, does she? As a general rule, girls aren't looking to get physical on a first date. Some, if the date is going very well, may decide that they would like to, but they'll generally drop you some hints if that's the case.While we're on the topic of being physically oriented, it should also be mentioned that, as odd is it may sound, you can pay a girl too many compliments on the way she looks. You may love it if a girl constantly swooned over your body, your hair, and your clothes, but girls don't. Don't get me wrong. - Your date will appreciate it if you show her that you think she looks good by telling her this a time or two, and by keeping your eyes on her and off other ladies. But, if you go over-board, you're going to seem very physical, and she's going to get the impression that all you're noticing about her is her body.Also make sure you keep the conversation away from past relationships. It never fails to surprise me how many men that think that by talking about a past girlfriend or how much they've been hurt before, they'll come across as caring and sensitive. You don't care about her ex-boyfriends, so why would she care about your past relationships either? The last thing a woman wants to hear about on your first date is other women. By talking about your past relationships you'll really only come across as whiney and melodramatic. Think about this. If you were at a dealership looking for a car, would you really want to hear about how many other people passed it up?What I'm about to say should really be common sense to everyone, but a lot of men tend to do this anyway. Don't be negative! Don't whine, don't complain, and don't try to act cool by being brooding and pessimistic. Women are not attracted to it; no one is, in fact. It's quite easy to be trying to think up something funny to say and end up saying something negative about the food, or the service at your restaurant. - No woman wants to hear you complain, and you have to be quite witty to pull that off jokingly! Focus on how much fun you're having with your date, and even if you're having to wait a long time on your food, keep her entertained with your wit and charm.Keep all of this in mind, and don't forget that it's up to you to take the initiative on the first date and let the girl know you're into her. Don't let her go back inside her house questioning if you want to see her aga[...]



Christian Dating Sites and How to Choose

2007-11-11T05:17:53.850-08:00

You've decided to use an online Christian dating site. Great! But how do you know the Christian dating site you are about to spend money on is any good? There are 100’s of purported online Christian dating sites world wide. With so many Christian dating sites to choose from, you couldn’t blame Christian singles for being a little confused as to which Christian dating site to use. That’s one reason why we have researched and provided a page listing the top good online Christian dating sites.

A Good Online Christian Dating Site

What are some predictors of a good Christian Dating site? Keep the following dating site tips in mind as you shop around:


A good Christian dating site will provide a free trial membership that not only allows you to browse other members, but also lets you know if those member is still actively seeking a soul mate. It’s really a little deceptive that some secular and Christian dating sites advertise a large membership base, but not all of those are active.
A good Christian dating site will have a search and matching database that allows you to seek matches that not only share similar beliefs and values, but also live in your general area. The good Christian dating sites will let you browse for a mate using a number of variables. Let’s be real here: What chance does your dating relationship have if your potential soulmate match lives in Tahiti, but you call New York your home? Dating sites like Christian Cafe, Christian Mingle, Yahoo Personals and AmericanSingles are so successful because they have the above mentioned quality.
A good Christian dating site has the ability to protect your privacy. In other words, you should be able to have complete control over things like your name, true e-mail address, phone number, etc. For example, quality Christian dating sites will have “in house” chat and e-mail addresses that allows you to remain anonymous while contacting other members. While we’re on the subject of privacy, you may also want to check with customer service to see if the dating site ever sells your personal info to other online dating sites (very common) or telemarketers. If you find out that is the case, it’s time to try out another Christian dating site.
Finally, a good Christian dating site will have happy customers. Dating sites like e-Harmony boasts thousands of engagements every year. Great. But a personal testimony speaks louder than any marketing hype. Say you’re interested in a certain Christian dating site. Do you know of any friends, relatives or singles group members who have used that Christian dating site? If so, weigh in their two cents when choosing your own Christian dating service. It may save you a lot of time, money and heartbreak.



David Butler, the author of this article, is a Christian minister to singles, and has a website, Christian Dating Service PLUS!, geared toward their dating and spiritual needs.

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Growing Online Dating Relationships

2007-10-29T10:29:14.175-07:00

Just like regular real-world relationships, online dating relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips for your online dating relationships:

1. Make time for your online dating relationship. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? And do you do the same? Do you take online dating for granted? Neglecting (or not prioritizing) virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other's time with respect.

2. Communication, whether it's offline or online dating, needs to "feel" right for both of you. It can cause bad vibes or leave a bad impression if one of you is too pushy. So don't ever rush! Patience is the key here. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust and remember, never go into the "interrogation" mode as this will easily piss off the other party.

3. Respect each others privacy. It is important that you do not share personal email addresses or digital photos online (or anything else) if your online date sent you the information in confidence. Breaching this trust is detrimental to your online dating relationships.

4. Engage in fun and special online dating moments . During your online dating, you can send greeting cards, links to favorite sites, share your digital photo albums, share cute or funny video clips, post on favorite forums of interest.

As you can see, online dating is very much similar to your offline dating. You have to tend your online dating relationship with tender, loving care and over time, it will sprout and grow.

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Art of Seduction

2007-09-30T07:27:13.799-07:00

Historically, women looking for short term love choose men with resources-bestowers of gifts, lavish vacations etc. Frugality was not acceptance to a woman on a fling.

However, modern women are now much more educated and wealthier than before. As such, looks become an important factor. They are more eager to choose tall, symmetrical men with chiseled cheekbones and rugged jaws.

Some of these women are testing their charms. They use a causal relationship to see what kind of men they can attract.However, most women will not lower their standards for brief love affairs. They still seek a partner who is healthy, stable, funny and generous.

If you are a guy looking for a relationship, I would suggest that you learn more about how a woman thinks. Learn the Art of Seduction today!

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Dating Dilemma - Should I Wait for Him to Call?

2007-09-20T10:08:19.533-07:00

Dear Ronnie,I have a dating dilemma that I could use your help with. I attended a speed-dating evening in August. When I received the “match” results, to my delight - the fellow I was MOST interested in had expressed interest in me! A few days later, I received a very nice e-mail from him asking if I’d “like to continue the conversation” I said yes, gave him my number and mentioned I’d be away on vacation the next week (which was last week.) He said he’d try to reach me at the end of that week.Well, SURPRISE I haven’t heard from him and now almost another week has gone by. I’m not sure what I should do. Should I wait to see if he contacts me? Should I assume “he’s just not that into me?" Should I drop him a brief, but friendly e-mail saying that I’m back from vacation and just wondering if he’d still like to get together?One of my girlfriends said I should just be patient and wait. He does have 3 young kids and things may be really busy since school just started. Two other friends thought I should go ahead and e-mail before he forgets what I look like and because “life is short.” What would you advise in this situation?Thanks,–Lady in waitingDear Lady in Waiting,Normally I prefer to have men do the reaching out. And he did that one time, but then hasn’t followed through. Who knows why – his reasons probably have nothing to do with you.The Situation AnalysisFor all we know one of his kids got sick, he met someone else, or he’s working on getting his corporate taxes done – they’re due soon. It’s anyone guess. I do feel that this is a sign – because you want a man who can follow through – who seeks you out and wants to date you. On the other hand, people do get busy and then after not calling, sometimes a guy feels too embarrassed to reconnect. Maybe he lost your number – oh no, sounds like we’re making excuses for him now – that’s not good.The Advice This fits the “What the heck?” category. You liked him and hate to let this go. I understand. What the heck? Send him an email. Go for it! The last thing you want is to wish you had just sent him an email. Not a regret worth creating.So go ahead. Send him a friendly email. You can either just say "Hi, how are you? I’m back from vacation." Or if you can handle the possible rejection, suggest getting together to do one of the activities you have in common, without picking a specific time – just ask about over the next week. There’s really no big downside to doing this.The Fine Print What I encourage women to AVOID is making the first move more than once because it will become a habit and ultimately you could waste a lot of time and heart on a guy who’s just curious or flattered by your pursuit, but not that interested.Sending a friendly nudge is not a bad thing to do, so do it right now after reading this. Then move on to think about something or someone else. It’s a big world out there and there are plenty of fish. Don’t get stuck on one lone sole when there’s a whole school swimming by.Lots of Love,Ronnie - The Dating CoachTo get f*r*e*e advice on 10 Reasons Why Women Should Never Pay on the First Date, visit www.NeverTooLate.biz Check out the book MANifesting Mr. Right: It’s Never Too Late to Find the Love You Want by Dating Coach and expert Ronnie Ann Ryan at www.ManifestingMrRight.com and for daily dating advice, visit the blogArticle Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ronnie_Ann_RyanClick Here! [...]



Creative Dating Ideas For Your Male Date

2007-09-20T10:05:43.195-07:00

Ladies, creative dating ideas need not be as difficult as you may think for you to come up with. Guys are simple creatures by nature. Do not think for one minute that I mean that they are stupid or are a lower life form. I mean, they are not as emotional as women are and this makes for a much simpler time of coming up with straightforward ideas for dates.Remember that the way you treat them is the way they are more inclined to treat you. Do not wait for them to come up with creative ideas, just show them that you care about them and can be fun. Be sure not to hurt the ego by being too forceful with this as some guys can take offense to a girl being totally in control all the time. Make sure that you keep him in mind at all times during the planning process. This is not about what you like and is about showing him that he is so special to you and that you are willing to put some of your wants aside for him. Respecting him will be the biggest way for you to keep him interested and feeling like the top man in your life. He will only have eyes for you.There are a ton of creative dating ideas that do not take a lot of effort or money to achieve. To plan a special date for your man, you must first look at his personality. Not all guys like football or basketball. He may like to read or listen to music. If he does, a sporting event will not be the way to go with the date. You might find that a good dating idea for the two of you is to spend an evening in a coffee shop listening to a poetry session instead of watching a sweaty basketball game. Gauge the guy and try to fit your date around his personality.Say your guy likes the sports scene, but you do not have the amount of money it takes to buy those major tickets. The perfect idea is to find out what little league sports are going on in your area. It may not be a professional game, but he will love you for your consideration towards him. A community game is just as good as a professional game, and in fact can allow for a more personal experience. Before you know it, you will be cheering them on as loud as their family members will.Another idea for being creative is to consider giving him a day with his pals without you and then meeting him later that day. This lets him know that you are not a clingy person, respect his individualism, and expect the same from him. Get in touch with a few of his friends and set up something for them to enjoy that you know he will like. Tell the guys where he will be and after they have had their outing, they can bring him to a designated spot for a nice dinner. This will be very special for him and he will not forget it.Ladies, remember, guys want to be treated specially, just like you. They want to be treated with respect and made to feel as special as you do. They may be unique in other ways, but when you take their feelings into consideration and plan for them only, they will love it.Everyone appreciates their partner taking the time to devise creative dating ideas. This proves to them that you were thinking of them only and really considered their feelings. This is a great way to have a good date, win his heart over and have a long relationship. The more fun you can have and personalized the dates, the better your overall relationship will become.Lee Blackspur is the owner of My-Dating-Advice.com which provides online and offline dating tips, advice and articles for men, women and teens of all ages and experience.Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Lee_BlackspurClick Here! [...]



Dating Tips - Dating Secrets About Women Men Don't Know

2007-09-20T10:02:57.931-07:00


Thousands of dating tips and articles are cluttered across the web. Almost all those dating tips and articles suggest several different ways and methods to get a date and do's and don'ts of dating. But dating is not only about do's or don'ts it's rather much more than that. There are several dating secrets about women men do not know and have always been oblivious to. Read on to find out some of the biggest dating secrets men don't know about women.


Nice men are good daters- This is one of the biggest dating misconception. Nice men are always known to finish last no matter how hard they try. This is belief many men carry with themselves thinking they might score a date being nice. This is one of the worst dating belief promoted and passed on through ages. Women prefer men who are good at the dating game and know how to play it.


Ugly men never get dates- Another dating secret most men are oblivious to. You do not have to look like tom cruise to get a date. It's much more than just mere looks and physical aspect. Dating has to do more with the person's overall personality than mere looks. Therefore ugly guys do get dates and not so good looking people have been known to score with exceptionally gorgeous women as well in the dating game.


Dating labor- Most men think it takes a lot of effort and time to get a date. This is another dating secret which is not known to men. You need to be a smart dater instead of being a hard working dater. The only way you can succeed in the dating game is by the proper usage of your brain not brawn.


Women are hard to find- This is another dating myth which is carried by most men who can't find a date. Well if you look around properly you would be amazed to discover that there are more single women looking to date than you can possibly imagine. But women are selective in the dating game. They only choose the best of the lot for dating no matter what. So if you think there is a deficiency of women on this planet than you certainly belong to the weaker lot which women do not prefer in the dating game.


What you don't know yet- Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman’s mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say. They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Read on to discover some of the most "Shocking Secrets" women don't want men to know- 9 Most Shocking Secrets Women don't want men to know


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Online Dating Is A Great Way To Meet That Special Someone

2007-09-10T09:56:06.966-07:00

Online dating is a new way to find friends or perhaps to find your special someone. Online dating is increasingly in huge demand and is relatively inexpensive. While there are many free chat rooms and online personal ad sites, you may want to invest in paying a small fee to find people who are more serious about meeting a quality partner. Online dating is becoming very popular as is a great way to contact and make new friends.The Dating चैलेन्जDating is a challenge at any age and for both women and men। Online dating is a reasonably safe way to overcome this common problem. Dating in the online scene isn't restricted just to teenagers and young adults. People of all ages are now becoming regular visitors to online dating sites. Dating can be stressful and nerve wracking for people of all ages and the stress of rejection often does not disappear with maturity.Dating OnlineOnline dating has become a very safe and accepted way to meet people and is popular for this reason। Online dating has only really taken off in the last few years, and the fact is that it is radically different from the traditional dating methods we are all used to. Online dating has helped many, many people find love all over the world as the previous physical barrier of distance and location has been removed by the internet. Online dating allows singles to learn important pieces of personal information about a potential partner before ever meeting them in person. By reading online dating profiles you quickly sift through a large number of potential partners and weed out the undesirables quickly and efficiently.Online Dating ProfilesWhether you’re creating your online profile, or scanning through those of others, online dating is a tricky business at best। Profiles are provided on each member and most of the time a picture is included. Profiles with pictures are more than twice as likely to receive attention than profiles without pictures. Photos are often an important component of online dating profiles as physical appearance is important to most members. Tip: if someone posted a short profile and clearly put no thought into it, you can expect that kind of communication in real life.Online dating is a high tech and modern way to date, but it brings back some old school elements because the relationships do not always advance so quickly। Online dating is especially convenient if you are uneasy about approaching members of the opposite gender in traditional meeting places such as bars and clubs, or if you have had bad experiences with these types of dating. An Internet survey showed that most single fathers agree that online dating is a safer and easier method for meeting other singles. 75 percent of respondents said that online dating is the easiest way for single parents to meet other single parents. 67 percent said that online dating is a safer way to date than other more conventional methods as you can study the profile of the person before arranging to meet them in person.Nigel is a successful webmaster and publisher of an Internet Shopping website. This site showcases, among other topics, the UK's leading Internet Dating Services and Online Dating sites.Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Nigel_M Click Here! [...]



Dating Advice Remaining Cautious During A Date

2007-09-10T09:53:48.159-07:00

Dating is all about building a relationship that could last forever. However, one should be careful while going on a date as one might end up facing various unknown situations in unforeseen सिर्कुम्स्तान्सेस

Conversation: Women do not always like men who are not careful about their pace। Men should never ask any questions which a woman might hesitate to answer. A few questions that are safe include details about her hometown, her profession, her education, friends, habits, hobbies and favorite tourist spots.

Online Dating: Online dating is always a tricky affair। If the online dating leads to conventional dating potential problems can be avoided if the meeting is fixed during the day at any public place such as a restaurant, coffee shop, shopping mall or multiplex। While dating online, one should never provide any private information including residential address, occupation, account details and telephone number. One could ask for snail mail as an alternative.

Unclear Communication: Any relationship can only blossom when the communication is clear। However, one should get cautious if the other person gives vague answers or avoids giving his contact number.

Desperation: One should never enter into a relation out of desperation or just for the purpose of preventing loneliness। It is always better to relax after a breakup. Also, one should avoid men who are abusive.

The most ideal way to find a right man is to have firm belief in your instincts. Usually, women do have a strong sense of intuition. However, it is sometimes useful to take along a trusted friend while going on a date with an unknown person so as to avoid any pitfalls.


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How To Get Back With Ex - Maturity Matters

2007-09-09T08:37:15.055-07:00

The underlying cause for the break up of any relationship is the lack of ability to sustain a lasting relationship on the part of one or both of the people involved. The basic underlying cause of this inability is immaturity. To be mature as a human being means one is, fully developed as a person and in a state of readiness to pursue something of value. A mature person has reached a plateau from where one sees self in relationship to others. He or she possesses the qualities needed to build a relationship based on common interests and possesses the willingness to grow and expand ones knowledge of self and another. A mature person seeks a relationship, in which he or she can love another with an uncompromising love. To seek a relationship is to seek someone to love, when seeking a relationship has as its goal, "to be loved" the relationship is already on a rocky path. Reconciliation may not be a wise pursuit.

The mature person refuses to be an enabler and refuses from the beginning to compromise in order to gain the love of another. We sometimes call love, physical attraction and attention from another, but this is not Love, often it is under the pretense of gaining love. When someone says, I love you; this may or may not be a true statement, although both parties may believe it at the time, because they unconsciously or even consciously crave love. This statement may simply mean I like the feeling I get when you ..., whatever it is you do for him or her. Those relationships in which both persons have reached a level of maturity, which allows them to communicate effectively in word, deed and moments of silence, are lasting relationships.

In considering, whether you should pursue rebuilding a broken relationship with an ex-wife or ex girlfriend, consider honestly the type of relationship you had. When is the last time you and your ex glanced across a crowded room and in that brief eye encounter both knew this as an exchange of mutual love. When wa the last time you said to your ex: "don't plan on cooking tonight I am taking you someplace special for dinner and then to the theater"?. When is the last time your ex did something really, special for you just because of her love for you? How often have you proven your love simply by cleaning off the dinner table and sharing chores just to spend time in her presence? When is the last time your ex came and sat down beside you while you were watching a football game just to be with you, although she dislikes football? Was your relationship a mature relationship?

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An Idiot's Guide To Dating

2007-09-07T09:35:15.087-07:00

If there's one thing that shows someone up as an idiot, it's their dating manner. Dating is quite a complicated process, and you really need to understand the woman or man you're pursuing in order to make the most of the experience. Whether you're looking for a long term partner or not, it's important to remember that dating can go very wrong, and can ruin your chances with a person forever.For that reason, it's worthwhile taking a look through this basic idiot's guide, to make sure you don't fall for some of the classic dating blunders that many have tried and failed in the past.Unfortunately, there is no set out procedure for dating, and there is no way we can be sure that we're doing things correctly.The best way to master dating is to experience it first hand, and to think about what you're saying and doing, and the way this will be interpreted by the other party. Confidence is important, but arrogance is catastrophic, and it is important to remember not to over-sell yourself to your would-be partner. Dating anyone should start off like meeting someone for the first time, or like chatting to a friend. Any undercurrent of further intentions could be good enough to ruin things, although it may be acceptable to make minor physical contact with your date towards the end of the evening.A good deal of value is attached to integrity in dating, and you should try not to give off the impression that you are an untrustworthy or sinister character. It is important also not to play the joker card, but to focus on being charming and witty as the mood requires. Most of all, try to relax in the company of your date and try to be yourself. There's no point in trying to live up to someone's expectations – if you can't act naturally around them, there really can be no long-term hope. All in all, try to avoid coming across as a sleazy individual, and you shouldn't expect affection or adoration immediately from your partner. Act courteously and politely, and try to make a good impression of yourself short of coming across as a complete walkover. By playing by the rules of general manners and social skills, you should be able to communicate effectively with your date, which is the best way to secure a longer term romance.And that's pretty much all there is to it.Although dating isn't a fine art, there are a few obvious ways in which you can help make the right impression for you, to give you the best possible chance of success with your chosen partner. Remember, it's all about being yourself and allowing your true personality to shine through – after all, if you're looking for someone long term, you need to be able to act comfortable around them. Provided you relax, and stick within the boundaries of manners and etiquette, your dating should work out well and provide you with the best opportunity for a meaningful relationship.Author BylineThe author Rebecca Walker writes articles for wetties. He also gives valuable information about free dating services make friends online, friend networking sharing, free social networks & find a friend service, make friends & love online.Click Here! [...]



Add Trust To Your Relationship

2007-09-05T09:00:43.234-07:00

Trust is something that is important to every single relationship you have. No matter if it is a relationship of friends, family, or even a relationship of lovers; trust must be there to make it successful. So, if you are noticing a lack of trust within your relationship, how can you get trust back into your relationship? How can trust be incorporated into your life, daily? How can you trust if you’ve been hurt in relationships before?

It is hard to add trust into a relationship that is already damaged. But, it is necessary in the most immediate way. Relationships are built on qualities like trust. If the trust in your relationship is week, chances are good that the relationship will suffer in the long run. If you are constantly questioning or worry about your relationship, then you have no trust in your partner. If you trust in them, then you know that they have your best interests at their heart just as you do for them. You can learn more about this aspect by visiting http://www.getdatingtips.com.

To add trust to your relationship, you must first put aside your problems. You must push aside all the times that trust ended up hurting you. Instead, put your trust into your relationship anyway. Even if you are worried that trusting someone will end up hurting you, you still have to give the opportunity to them to prove you wrong. If you are in a relationship where you have given trust and not received trust, then you are in a failing relationship. Unless you commit to trusting each other 100%, you will not succeed in your relationship. And, in the end, if that trust is getting abused and taken advantage of, then, you shouldn’t be in that relationship. If you give, so much your partner give in a relationship.

S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com
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Dating Mistakes

2007-09-05T08:57:30.077-07:00


Dating mistakes can kill a dating relationship. Do you know what dating mistakes you have made? Do dating mistakes hold your relationship back? And, do mistakes like these get forgotten later on? Dating mistakes are simply things that you just don’t do right. To avoid them, though, you have to know what your partner considers a dating mistake.
Open communication is a must and this is often the worst dating mistake you can make. Talk about what you want, need, and expect in your dating relationship. Dating mistakes of this nature often lead to misunderstanding and dating can even end here.
Don’t expect too much, either. Don’t put high standards and expect your dating relationship to survive. Understanding the other person’s need is so important in dating. Don’t underestimate and don’t over estimate your date.
Don’t lie. This dating mistake will leave you out on the street!
Trust your date. If you ever plan to build a relationship, trust must be something you and your date have.
Don’t forget your date’s feelings. The most successful dating relationships are centered on people who always put their date’s feelings ahead of their own.
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Dating mistakes can leave you out in the cold. If you are someone who can not over come these dating mistakes, well, just face it, dating is not something you’ll do well. Caring for another person means making sacrifices too. So, dating mistakes like these and others should be taken into consideration for forgiveness as well. Dating mistakes can and will break or make a dating relationship.
S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com
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Communicate with your heart!

2007-08-17T17:21:29.665-07:00

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It is said that only 7 per cent of communication is through the words we speak. Often in a relationship, letting your inner voice speak to your partner is very important. No matter how good your relationship may be, there will always be times when it runs into difficult moments.

In these moments, it is crucial for you to express yourself- indulge in heart-to-heart talks. Be open. honest and gentle to your partner during the talk. This could be a very powerful yet loving means of communication as it allows you to connect on a deeper level rather than just simply that of the body or mind. It is the connectivity at the level of the heart, which is where the true you resides!!!

One danger of any relationship is that you presume that your partner can read you like an open book. That is not the way! No relationship is complete without communication. Take this advice: Express yourself fully to your partner from now on!















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How committed are you in your relationship?

2007-08-17T10:20:39.579-07:00

I have to say, I am quite pleased with the responses I got from my previous post "The Energy of Love'. As this is my first bogging project, the comments I received certaintly encouraged me to continue blogging. Thank you Readers!


Today, I shall discuss about the issue concerning 'commitment'. The common belief is that a relationship is supposed to be fifty-fifty or half-half commitment from both parties. GIVE UP THIS THOUGHT AT ONCE! It is this belief that has led to many break-ups.


If you do not want to follow this footpath, then give your 100 per cent without waiting to see whether or not your partner is giving anything. A loving relationship needs full commitment!!!We have been conditioned to believe that relationships are sustained by both partners giving an equal and balanced amount in order for it to be successful. To me, it will not work this way.


The moment you enter into a relationship, you should not start thinking in terms of numbers. If you are so calculative, the relationship will be reduced to a petty mindset, where each person looks at the other' s contribution before their own.If having a relationship is so important to you, why not look at relationship differently? Regard them as a source that does not dry up, even when giving all the time.


If you want to spend your life with your partner, commitment is a MUST! It sometimes means giving up something to gain something. For example, cancelling something you would like to do in order to be able to enjoy something your partner wishes to do.


You have to be committed to your relationship and without doubt, commitment comes easily if you love somebody and strongly believe in the value of commitment. Before you think I sound naggy, STAY 100 % COMMITTED if you want to preserve your relationship! If you don't follow my advice, then be prepared to regret!!!!









The Energy of Love

2007-08-08T09:40:48.616-07:00

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Remember the story of Romeo and Juliet? This romantic story is re-enacted everyday. People don 't jump in love, they fall in love. It is almost an involuntary reaction... You cannot make it occur when you want it, who you like it or even where you want it to be.




Okay, I know you must be thinking that I am saying the same old stuff again from my earlier posts. BUT , this is what everyone wants to know deep down their heart.




What is so good about falling in love? How does it contribute to our emotional well-being?Reading John Hamwee (Love's energy) , I would think that the author has some interesting views on falling in love.


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According to John, The body has a particular vibrant energy. When a person falls in love, the vibration of the energy body changes, it vibrates to a different frequency, gets bigger and becomes more organised. The resultant of the expansion of the energy body is that you feel physically bigger than before, and with that goes a feeling that you are stronger, more important, more valuable. You will feel more confident and the old hibitual feeling of being small is replaced by the new experience of being big. Feelings of relief and joy come with that.This is also why falling in love can be so healing.




To change a person who lacks in self-worth into a confident and cheerful one takes alot of time and required a great deal of discipline. By contrast falling in love is like magic. You will get an instant release without the effort.




Love can heal emotional wounds. Emotional wounds affect the energy body. Say you are betrayed by your good friend. It feels like a sharp cut in the energy body. A cut that is non-physical but extremely painful. Falling in love, like Yoga or Qi Gong fill in the hole in the energy body.




Falling in love simply restore us to our true capabilities. That is why it feels so good to be in love; it returns us to our true state. No other methods can regain our senses as quickly and effortlessly as when we fall in love.



















Why are you still a Single?

2007-08-04T19:30:02.420-07:00

You can't control when, where,whom or how you fall in love. The chemistry and mystery of love are unpredictable.

No one can expect to find their soul mates when or how they like it. Whether you believe it or not, there must be someone in the universe who is right for you. All we have to do is to be open to the possibility of encountering that special one.

That s Faith- being open to the possibilites.

If you think this is great for only other people, but you don't believe that faith is going to win you a great romance, think again.

Having faith will certainly mean that you can let life suprise you. Trusting faith does not mean that we are powerless, but rather that we embrace the unknown and stop being afraid of uncertainty.

I mean liking the idea that your dream partner may look and sound nothing like the one you had imagined. Faith means that you keep your door open to dating, no matter how discouraged and frustrated you are, because you believe that ultimately the person who 's right for you will walk through it.

Are you still single? It is the lack of faith and the fear of the unknown that keep you single.










A White Rose

2007-07-30T05:44:43.392-07:00

The red rose whispers of passion,
And the white rose breathes of love;
O, the red rose is a falcon,
And the white rose is a dove.

But I send you a cream-white rosebud
With a flush upon its petal tips;
For the love that is purest and sweetest
Has a Kiss of desire on the lips.

John Boyle O'Reilly












'Does She likes Me?????'

2007-07-26T08:12:04.581-07:00

Do you ever wonder what girls are thinking when you approach them?

How often do you think that the girl will try to reject you even before you open your mouth?

So most of us end up trying to HIDE our true feelings.

We tend to try and pass off as a guy who just "wants to be friend."

But little do we realize that we are doing more harm than good.

Now the truth is, if a girl is decent looking enough, chances are she's used to being approached by guys looking to date her.

So a girl does KNOWS what you want if you're bothering to approach her.

She's thinking:
"Oh, this guy must be interested in me."

At this point, she has two choices...

The first is to reject him, because she's not interested for some reason.

The second is to play along and see where it goes because she IS interested.

What most guys try to avoid the chance where she could reject them because they don't want to go through that pain barrier.

So we try to act completely uninterested in her romantically.

So, the girl starts to think:

"Okay, I guess he's not into me. But he's nice, he'll make a good friend."

Once the 'nice' guy tries to make his move on her, she'll reject him, because he's already been pegged into the "friend" category.


So, by trying to avoid the possibility of rejection, most guys are in fact doing themselves a great disfavor.

They're going to get to know the girl, like her, pine over her, and never get her to like them in the same way they like her.

Whereas if she rejected you as a potential boyfriend , it would be a little bit painful, but at least you know that you did try...

Does this story seems familiar to you?

Well, if you are certainty keen to find a love partner, I suggest that you should be more PROACTIVE!

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