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Published: Fri, 27 Apr 2018 02:21:10 -0500


Rebuilding Your Marriage After An Affair - What Can I Do If My Spouse Isn't Remorseful?

Thu, 24 Mar 2011 15:49:33 -0500

Your spouse is having or had an affair. He or she apologises but you can tell that your partner isn't sincere about it. When you mention about the affair, your spouse brushes you aside and becomes aggressive and defensive about it. And because of this, the both of you aren't having sexual intercourse and there is an atmosphere of mistrust and hurt due to the issues being unresolved.

Signs of Cheating Husbands or Wives - 3 Obvious Indicators of Physical Affairs We Might Not Notice

Thu, 02 Dec 2010 13:17:08 -0600

Unfortunately for us, it is very difficult to look for the signs of cheating when the cheater is having a physical affair. Physical affairs do not entail any emotional baggage and are mostly one night stands. So, it is challenging to spot indicators of physical infidelity. However, there are times when the cheaters might get careless and reveal signs of their cheating ways. This is the time when we look out for their mistakes by starting with the 3 most obvious indicators of physical affairs.

The New Relationship Advice Everyone Is Buzzing About

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 11:24:18 -0500

What is the new relationship advice everyone is buzzing about? It is the advice that to build a successful relationship and marriage, you need to be selfish enough to put your own needs first, ahead of everything else.

Divorce Advice - How To Know When You Need A Divorce

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 10:53:26 -0500

One of the most difficult question anyone can face in their life is 'How to know when you need a divorce?' After all, on the day you decided to get married, you never wanted to imagine that one day, you would end up considering divorce. We all want a marriage that lasts forever but it is not always possible.

My Husband Wants Space - 3 Steps On How To Deal With This And Save Your Marriage

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 10:16:49 -0500

"My husband wants space" is a common issue that couples face in marriage. If you need help solving this problem, I hope these 3 steps I suggest, will help you work things out with your husband, and successfully save your marriage.

Does Marriage Counseling Work? 3 Tips To Make Sure Your Session Is Effective

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 10:15:53 -0500

A common question I've seen people ask is 'Does Marriage Counseling Work?' While it is natural to ask this question, I believe a better question to ask is: "What can I do to ensure marriage counseling works for me?" Hence, I've chosen to share these 3 tips so you can make the most of any marriage counseling session you choose to attend.

What To Do When Your Husband Won't Work On Saving Your Marriage (3 Things You Must Do)

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 10:15:29 -0500

What do you do when your husband won't work on saving your marriage? I know how frustrating and hopeless it must feel to be stuck in a one-sided relationship. So to save yourself some pain and anguish, please take my advice and do these following 3 things.

How To Plan A Marriage Separation - 5 Key Elements You Must Negotiate Before Separating

Thu, 14 Oct 2010 10:14:27 -0500

Do you need to know how to plan a marriage separation so that your family goes through the least amount of stress possible? Then here are 5 key elements you must discuss and negotiate before you and your spouse decide to separate.

Advices For Marriage - 3 Dangerous Myths You Must Face

Tue, 12 Oct 2010 10:37:20 -0500

Do you need some advices for marriage? Here's one: If you want a marriage that lasts you a lifetime, take a hard look at these 3 dangerous myths and banish them from your mind, so they don't sabotage the happiness you've always dreamed of...

Dealing With The Aftermath Of Affairs - 3 Things You Need To Know To Save Your Marriage

Tue, 12 Oct 2010 10:27:15 -0500

Are you dealing with the painful and uncomfortable aftermath of affairs? Are you still struggling and fighting to save your marriage? Then here are 3 things you need to know that will help you...

Advice On Marriage Breakdown - 3 Tips To Help Rescue Your Marriage

Tue, 12 Oct 2010 09:49:54 -0500

Are you looking for some advice on marriage breakdown? Well look no further. Here are 3 tips you can use to help rescue your marriage...

How to Solve Marriage Problems - Advice for Wives

Tue, 12 Oct 2010 09:39:24 -0500

Do you feel stressed out worrying about your marriage problems? If so, here are 3 keys on how to solve marriage problems so you can create more peace and harmony within your family...

How To Stop Constant Arguing With My Husband - 3 Effective Steps You Must Read Now

Fri, 08 Oct 2010 10:12:43 -0500

Do you need to know what to do if you are asking 'how to stop constant arguing with my husband, and rediscover the loving feelings in your marriage?' If yes, here are 3 effective tips to help you weed out the root of your problems and resolve them.

My Husband Won't Talk About The Affair - 3 Rules You Must Follow To Save Your Marriage

Wed, 06 Oct 2010 22:02:34 -0500

Do you feel stuck and frustrated because your husband won't talk about his affair? Is it hard for you to trust him when he refuses to open up? You are not alone - when I discovered my husband's affair, part of me wanted to know all the details, another part of me felt terrified to find out. If you feel the same, I hope the following 3 rules will help save your sanity and your marriage...

Understanding Why My Husband Cheated On Me - Revealing The Ultimate Reason Why Cheaters Cheat!

Mon, 04 Oct 2010 15:22:27 -0500

After discovering his affair, I spent months trying to understand why my husband cheated on me. In my devastation, I kept thinking: "How could he do this to me? I loved him, I trusted him. I thought we had a good marriage. We have children together. How could he cheat? Why did he have to go and cheat? I'm going crazy!"

Saving A Marriage After An Affair - Will He Cheat Again?

Mon, 04 Oct 2010 15:20:15 -0500

Are you working on saving your marriage after an affair? Are you asking the question: Will he cheat again? If you are, you are not alone. After being betrayed by the person you trusted most in the world, it's perfectly normal to be looking for answers and reassurance that he won't cheat again. But before I can answer your question, it's important that I share with you a little bit more about why cheaters cheat so you can discover the answer for yourself. Is that OK? If so, please read on... Essentially, there are two key reasons you need to know about why cheaters cheat:

Saving A Marriage After An Affair - Why Does He Refuse To Share The Details Of The Affair?

Mon, 04 Oct 2010 15:16:48 -0500

A common question that wives who are working hard at saving a marriage after an affair want an answer to is: Why does he refuse to share the details of the affair? If you're feeling frustrated, angry or confused because of this, here are the 3 key reasons you must read...

Preserving A Marriage After An Affair - How Do I Deal With The Images In My Mind? 3-Step Exercise

Mon, 04 Oct 2010 15:14:20 -0500

Are you concerned with preserving a marriage after an affair? Do you constantly ask yourself the question: "How do I deal with the images in my mind?" If yes, here are 3 steps I've learned and used to stop the images from haunting me. I hope you will use them to relieve your nightmares too...

How To Save Relationship After Cheating - 3 Ways To Rebuild Trust With Your Partner After An Affair

Mon, 04 Oct 2010 15:11:01 -0500

A crucial step of how to save a relationship after cheating is to rebuild the trust that's been destroyed. To help you do this, here are 3 effective ways to rebuild trust with your partner after an affair...

A Husband Doesn't Spend Time With His Wife - What Does It Really Mean?

Mon, 04 Oct 2010 09:00:22 -0500

What does it really mean when a husband doesn't spend time with his wife? Does it signal the end of marriage? How serious is it? What can you do to turn this situation around? I will do my best to address these questions, so please read on.

I Am Unable To Save My Marriage - 3 Things I Can Do To Make My Divorce Less Painful For My Kids

Fri, 01 Oct 2010 15:28:30 -0500

Most of the time after divorce, parents will ask 'I am unable to save my marriage, how do I make my divorce less painful for my kids.' Divorce is a huge blow to your children's happiness and will have a massive impact on their future. Whether at home, school or work, your children will never be as happy as when the whole family was happily living together. Ultimately, if you have decided that it is best to file for a divorce, here are some methods you can use to make your divorce less painful for your kids.

How To Rebuild A Marriage After An Affair - 3 Ways On How To Deal With Hurt Feelings

Fri, 01 Oct 2010 11:27:03 -0500

When learning how to rebuild a marriage after an affair, one issue you must face is how to deal with hurt feelings. People who are hurt will unconsciously hurt others. This is why both the cheater and the injured partner need to figure out how to deal with their own hurt feelings - or risk damaging your relationship further. I hope these 3 ways will help...

How To Fall In Love Again With My Spouse - 3 Steps You Must Use To Save Your Marriage!

Fri, 01 Oct 2010 11:09:36 -0500

Are you wondering 'how to fall in love with my spouse again'? Then here are 3 simple steps you must use to spark your inner passion and save your marriage from divorce.

Saving A Marriage After Infidelity - 3 Proven Ways On How To Trust My Husband Again

Fri, 01 Oct 2010 10:45:04 -0500

I found one of the most difficult aspects of saving a marriage after infidelity was figuring out how to trust my husband again. Are you going through this too? Then please read on.

Save My Marriage After An Emotional Affair - 3 Simple Tips Of Rekindling Marital Intimacy

Thu, 30 Sep 2010 09:32:42 -0500

There are 3 unbelievably simple ways of rekindling marital intimacy that helped save my marriage after an emotional affair. Emotional affairs usually happen in a relationship where a party is being neglected by the other. This can be due to busy schedule at work or other commitments outside the relationship. And because of this, the neglected party might receive more attention from another person and that is where the emotional affair starts. This can result in the cheater being more distant in the marriage. If you are facing this problem, let me share with you 3 unbelievably simple ways of rekindling marital intimacy.

Healing After An Affair - 3 Things To Consider To Know 'Does He Still Love Me?'

Thu, 30 Sep 2010 09:22:44 -0500

Are you working on healing after an affair? Do you wonder "Does he still love me?" If the answer is yes, here are 3 things for you to consider...

Understanding Men Using The Rules Of Attraction - How to Get Him and Keep Him Forever!

Thu, 30 Sep 2010 08:28:08 -0500

Do you need help understanding men and the rules of attraction? You are not alone. I was confused too until I discovered these 3 rules that helped me to understand men better, which led me to attract the man of my dreams and keep him!

Saving A Marriage After An Affair - 3 Steps On How To Stop Being Suspicious

Wed, 29 Sep 2010 15:14:15 -0500

Are you working on saving a marriage after an affair? Do you want to know how to stop being suspicious? Here are three steps you can use to stop yourself from feeling suspicious and save your marriage from being destroyed by paranoia...

3 Activities You Can Do To Help You Survive Infidelity Now

Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:34:38 -0500

Very often, professionals will advice you to spend time away from your partner to help you survive infidelity now. This time apart gives both of you time to clear your head and think about the next step in your marriage. So here, I am going to share with you 3 activities you can do to help you survive an affair.

Surviving Infidelity In Marriage - Top 3 Signs Of Cheating You May Have Overlooked

Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:13:13 -0500

It is never easy surviving infidelity in marriage. Even after you have 'dealt' with your husband's infidelity, it doesn't mean that he will not cheat on you again. Many times, it is because of these 3 signs of cheating you may have overlooked that allows your husband to continue his cheating ways.

Saving A Marriage After An Affair - 3 Tips On How To Get Back The Love Of Your Life

Tue, 28 Sep 2010 14:51:57 -0500

Saving a marriage after an affair has never been an easy task. However, after learning 3 tips on how to get back the love of your life, it will be a less steep mountain to conquer. These 3 tips have successfully helped my husband an I survive an affair he had. So here I am going to share with you these 3 valuable and effective tips on how to get back the love of your life.

How To Control Feelings Of Anxiety After Discovering Spouse's Affair? - 3 Tips On How To Do It

Tue, 28 Sep 2010 10:30:31 -0500

Are you wondering how to control your feelings of anxiety after discovering your spouse's affair? Here are three tips you can use to help yourself feel better instantly...

Can Marriage Be Saved After Cheating? - 3 Reasons Why Is There Hope For My Marriage

Tue, 28 Sep 2010 08:55:04 -0500

Can marriage be saved after cheating? I used to think it was a definite no. But when faced with the reality of infidelity in my own life, I struggled to look for reasons why there is hope for my marriage. I hope by sharing with you my discoveries, you too will see light at the end of the tunnel...

Saving A Marriage After Infidelity - 2 Tips On How Do I Keep It From Happening Again?

Mon, 27 Sep 2010 12:36:09 -0500

A common question when saving a marriage after infidelity is: "How do I keep it from happening again?" This is a great question because it shows you are willing to find out more about how to improve and cheat-proof your marriage. Here are 2 tips to help you do this...

Marriage After An Affair - Is It A Good Idea To Have A Baby After The Affair?

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 22:07:45 -0500

Ultimately, you will have to decide for yourself: "Is it a good idea to have a baby after the affair?" However, here are two questions to help you think things through...

Marriage After An Affair - Will It Ever Be The Same Again?

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 21:55:04 -0500

When working to save a marriage after an affair, at some point, we ask the question "Will it ever be the same again?" It's true that your marriage has changed after the affair. So let's look at a few things together...

Saving A Marriage After An Affair - 3 Common Behaviors That Sabotage Your Efforts to Restore Trust!

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 21:52:49 -0500

Are you struggling to save your marriage after an affair? Do you need to know "How do we restore the trust?" First be aware of these 3 common behaviors that sabotage your efforts of restoring the trust in your relationship...

How To Save Marriage After Cheating - How To Get My Wife To Forgive Me (3 Practical Action Steps)

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 19:50:30 -0500

By now, you know that one thing you need to know about how to save marriage after cheating, is to figure out how to get your wife to forgive you. This article shares 3 practical action steps of this process ('plus' what to do when it seems like she'll never forgive you). Be sure to read on and discover a surprising approach to seeking forgiveness from your wife...

How To Save Your Relationship After Cheating - 3 Steps On How To Start Over With A Clean Slate

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 11:47:15 -0500

When asking how to save your relationship after cheating, many people want to know how to start over with a clean slate. While starting over with a clean slate may seem like a magical solution, in reality, it takes time, patience, effort and persistence. I hope the following 3 steps will help you to restore and rebuild the love, trust and good feelings in your relationship...

Save Marriage After Cheating - 3 Rules On How To Talk About The Affair

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 09:23:26 -0500

Talking about the affair was hard. It hurt. But if you truly want to save marriage after cheating, I recommend you read these 3 rules on how to talk about the affair.

Save My Marriage Today - How To Know If I Should Get Back Together After A Split

Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:41:19 -0500

'Help me save my marriage today. How to know if I should get back together after a split?' This question is probably hounding you every night after separating from your spouse. I cannot help you answer this question, because no one can help you decide your happiness but yourself. However, what I can do is to guide you through this 3 stage decision making process so that you can make an informed decision on whether to move back in with your spouse.

Surviving Infidelity In Marriage - 2 Real Reasons To Why Won't My Spouse Share The Details?

Tue, 21 Sep 2010 13:14:40 -0500

Are you working towards surviving infidelity in marriage? Do you wonder "why won't my spouse share the details of the affair?" If you are feeling puzzled and confused, I hope reading these 2 real reasons brings you some inner peace and relief...

Help Save My Marriage Today - Identify And Deal With 3 Commitments That Cause Troubles In Marriage

Mon, 20 Sep 2010 13:53:43 -0500

Before getting help to save my marriage, I couldn't understand why my husband and I faced so much challenges in our marriage. We quarreled frequently and had plenty of disagreements about the number of hours he spent with me. It was lonely not to have him back at home in the night and I felt that I had the sole responsibility of taking care of our children. It was only after getting professional help to save my marriage then I realize how to identify and deal these commitments in our lives that caused so much unhappiness.

Help Save My Marriage Today - 3 Communication Mistakes You Never Want To Make

Thu, 16 Sep 2010 09:24:54 -0500

There are 3 communication mistakes you never want to make if you need help to 'Save My Marriage Today.' Communication in a marriage is important. It can determine whether the marriage will work out or fail. Needless to say, we have to be equipped with the appropriate skills to have effective communication with your partner. With that said, we also need to know what we should NEVER do when communicating with our spouse.

How To Save A Marriage After Cheating - 3 Amazing Facts About Trust You Must Know

Thu, 16 Sep 2010 09:24:53 -0500

The key point on how to save a marriage after cheating is to rebuild trust. Infidelity destroys trust - One of the most important factors in a happy and blissful marriage. Without rebuilding the trust between married couples, it is very difficult for both parties to progress in a relationship. What I am going to share with you may sound new to you but here are 3 amazing facts about trust you must know.

How To Stop Cheating On Your Partner And Save Your Marriage - 3 Things You Must Know To End Affairs

Wed, 15 Sep 2010 20:35:00 -0500

Before I share with you 3 key things you must know if you want to end an affair, I want to acknowledge you for taking the time and effort to read this article - about how to stop cheating on your partner and save your marriage. Most people might think it's simple and easy for someone to just stop cheating. Unfortunately, it's more challenging than it seems and as you read on, you will find out why...

Healing A Marriage After An Affair - 3 Tips on How To Release Anger And Stress Safely

Fri, 10 Sep 2010 15:11:33 -0500

Feeling angry and stress will limit the any chance you have on healing a marriage after an affair. It is natural and perfectly fine to feel anger and stress when you discovered that your spouse is having an affair. However, it is not the right time to heal your marriage because when you are angry and stressed out at something or someone, you tend to do or say things that you do not mean. To avoid that, I am going to share with you 3 tips on how to release anger and stress safely to avoid making things worse when you are trying to heal a marriage after an affair.

How To Save A Marriage After An Affair - 3 Deadly Mistakes You Must NEVER Make

Fri, 10 Sep 2010 14:33:57 -0500

After knowing that my husband cheated, I was clueless on how to save a marriage after an affair. I tried many ways to get him back but only to realize that I was doing it all wrong. I sought advice from experts with a proven track record and they pointed out to me these 3 deadly mistakes you must never make if you want to save your marriage after an affair.

Dealing With Infidelity - 3 Facts That Will Help You Stop Blaming Yourself If Your Husband Cheated

Tue, 10 Aug 2010 08:46:12 -0500

How many times have you wondered whether it's your fault that your husband cheated? I understand how it feels because I too, went on an emotional roller coaster ride, after discovering my husband's affair. Part of me knew it was illogical to blame myself, especially since I was the one who had remained loyal while he was the one who cheated. Unfortunately, I just couldn't stop, until I understood the 3 facts that I share with you below. I hope once you discover and understand these 3 facts, you will stop blaming yourself and get through this event, with less pain from now on.

Save My Marriage Today - How to Prepare Yourself Before Gathering Evidence of His Infidelity

Mon, 09 Aug 2010 16:32:10 -0500

If these words, 'Save My Marriage Today' ring a bell, you are probably at the right place. More so, if you want to know how to prepare yourself before gathering information of his infidelity. But before searching, it is important to know how to cover up those actions. Let's face it, no matter how careful and meticulous we are, there is a chance we might get caught flipping through his bills or scrolling down his text messages. And at that point in time, we do not want to end up being the one who is guilty or accused of over-reacting. Here, I will share with you 3 quickstart tips I used, on how to prepare yourself before gathering evidence of his infidelity.

Affairs - The Steps to Take to Rebuild Your Marriage After an Affair

Tue, 03 Aug 2010 17:27:58 -0500

It is not easy to rebuild your marriage after an affair. It requires patience and perseverance from both partners to save a marriage. However, when a marriage is in trouble, there is a possibility that a partner will be unwilling to cooperate. So, I am here to share with you 3 easy yet effective steps to rebuild your marriage after an affair even if your are doing it alone. I hope these 3 steps can help you to save your marriage after infidelity.

How to Save a Marriage Alone - 3 Tips You MUST Read!

Tue, 03 Aug 2010 15:47:45 -0500

I have a friend who had to save her marriage alone. Her husband wanted a divorce and no amount of persuasion could make him change his mind. I saw how painful it is to be the only one trying to salvage the broken marriage and my friend was desperate to get her husband back. She nearly gave up on their marriage. However, she sought professional help and she shared with me these 3 tips you can use to to learn how to save marriage alone.

Save Your Marriage After Infidelity - 3 Secrets on How to Stop Blaming After the Affair Has Ended

Mon, 02 Aug 2010 14:18:25 -0500

Discover these 3 secrets to save your marriage after infidelity so you can learn how to stop blaming each other after the affair has ended, and focus your energy on repairing your marriage instead. Have you been trying hard to save you marriage now that you know your partner cheated, but has since ended the affair?

Surviving an Emotional Affair - 3 Fatal Mistakes You Never Want to Make

Mon, 02 Aug 2010 13:56:25 -0500

Don't make any of these 3 fatal mistakes that couples easily overlook when working on surviving an emotional infidelity. If you take any of these mistakes lightly, you risk having more sleepless nights and getting your heart broken again. Learn from the mistakes I've made, and you too can save your marriage from divorce.

Surviving Infidelity in Marriage - 3 Simple Tips For Beating Depression Without Prescription Drugs

Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:14:59 -0500

There is nothing wrong with feeling depressed after you discover infidelity in your marriage. It's natural to feel betrayed, depressed, all other emotions. Still, what I know about surviving infidelity in marriage, is that you must find ways for coping and beating depression without prescription drugs - so you can speak rationally and appropriately to your partner instead of pushing them further away, with your overwhelming emotions.

How to Save Your Marriage From Divorce After an Affair - The Fastest Method

Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:45:09 -0500

People who don't understand might think you're crazy. But I know how desperate, frightened and alone you must feel right now, because I've been there before. That is why I'm here to tell you that: it's perfectly 100% okay for you to desire the fastest method on how to save your marriage from divorce after an affair.

Dealing With a Cheating Spouse - 3 Proven Ways of Dealing With Betrayal

Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:29:12 -0500

Do you have problems dealing with a cheating spouse? I know I did. I felt shocked, lost, confused - totally unequipped on how to handle this devastating blow to my marriage.

Save Your Marriage - Is an Affair a Deal Breaker? 3 Things I've Learned

Mon, 26 Jul 2010 16:01:46 -0500

After discovering my husband had an affair, one thing I desperately needed to know was..."Is an affair a deal breaker?" It took me a long time to find my answer, so I hope by sharing these 3 things I've learned with you, it brings you some relief and peace of mind.

How to Save a Marriage After an Affair? - 3 Effective Tips That Work

Mon, 26 Jul 2010 15:38:53 -0500

This question occupied my mind for several months after I found out that my husband cheated on me. After the cheating came to light, I was angry, I was sad and of course devastated. It felt as though my world had fallen apart. However, deep down inside my heart, I knew I wanted my husband back - for the kids and of course myself. My husband agreed to tackle this issue we have together and I desperately searched for answers on the internet and found 3 effective tips that guided my family back in one piece.

Save My Marriage Today - 3 Tips For Handling Arguments

Mon, 26 Jul 2010 08:57:13 -0500

If you are asking someone, 'Please Save My Marriage Today' because of constant ineffective arguments, then you will most probably need these 3 tips for handling arguments. It is very common to have arguments between married couples and can be seen as an indicator of a healthy marriage because thoughts and feelings of both parties are shared. I understand how much you want to explode in front of your partner, and I did it plenty of times before. However, after receiving professional help, I found out that we have to follow certain rules to ensure that our arguments do not turn nasty. And these are 3 tips I have learned to handle arguments.

Save My Marriage Today - Top 3 Predictors of Divorce

Thu, 22 Jul 2010 13:53:08 -0500

While going through the 'Save My Marriage Today' course, one of the lessons is about the Top 3 predictors of divorce. It is important to know the reasons that are causing trouble in your marriage because only then, you are able to apply and use the most effective method to resolve it. So here, I am going to share with you these 3 reasons you are more likely to get divorced if you fall under these categories.

How to Save My Marriage Today - 3 Effective Tips to Help You Now!

Thu, 22 Jul 2010 10:54:56 -0500

When my marriage was in shambles I asked myself, 'How to save my marriage today?'. I hated the way things were and needed marriage help and advice to retain my sanity. However, I was afraid to talk to my family and friends about this problem. I went on the internet to look or answers and these are 3 effective tips that paved the way to my blissful marriage today.