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Cyberbullying ex

Sun, 02 Sep 2007 18:04:54 +0000

Hi, what would you advise to do with a geek?
That's my ex. But I'd rather call it a nightmare. We met virtually and this is where our relationships developed - through msn and webcam. i was young and all about my studies and career, and virtual boyfriend was just perfect for me. We met once for a month of vacations 5 years ago, and that's it.
He would be silent for weeks for no reason ignoring my calls and emails, he dumped me several times, then would call me and we'd make it up again.
When I felt I was sick and tired with that - he didn't make any moves to come to my town, to live together, to further develop our relations I told him I was seeing someone else. That drove him mad and he started abusing me, calling me and breathing (i.e. masturbating), then he started posting my pictures, my contact info, and other personal stuff about me at my blogspot and myspace and all over the web
I ordered a report on his background and among other stuff it revealed he has been married for over 10 years - he lied he was divorced, and he is still married. He's been abusing me for over 3 years now.
I totally ignore him,I'm married and we're having a child in 26 weeks, and his actions (and even no action - his comments on me are THERE, and I'm aware of them) are more disturbing now that I have to care of my child too.
Is there any way to handle such people, to stop them? I live in another country, he's in the US.
He sounds very convincing when he talks, he may make you believe just about ANYTHING (like that he was divorced! And his wife even called me and said he was married, but she didn't say she was the wife, and he assured me it was someone mad, and I believed!). He hardly finished high school while I have a Master degree and MBA, and I fell for him. He acted as if he were superior to me (calling me a shit-eater) and I liked it... I don't know how to turn his attention to his own life and his wife from me and my life.
I contacted the hosting providers, but every time he'd find a way to post stuff about me somewhere else, no matter how many times I report him, he'll say more each time.
I've been ignoring him for over 1 year now, his comments and webpages are still there. Has anyone been in a similar situation? What should i do?