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Updated: 2018-04-20T07:47:34.870-05:00

 



I wanted to add that I think getting someone who i...

2010-03-21T21:59:40.823-05:00

I wanted to add that I think getting someone who is trained by an accomplished attachment therapist is also important. Not just someone who has read some books or gone to a couple of seminars.



Reignie, Well, personally this is what I would lo...

2010-03-20T10:04:24.689-05:00

Reignie,

Well, personally this is what I would look for.

Someone who includes the parent in the therapy and works toward attachment between the child and you. Someone who understand who difficult it is for parents and does not blame you and understands if other therapists have done so. Someone who is willing to deal with what is under the anger. I am on my way to a wedding. I'll mull this over and get back to you.



Hi Brenda, I was wondering with the insight you ...

2010-03-19T23:21:25.722-05:00

Hi Brenda,

I was wondering with the insight you have now, having been through parenting RAD kids and then training to become an attachment therapist if you would consider writing a post from your experience and perspective the vital things other parents with RAD kids should be looking for when choosing an attachment therapist?

Sort of like a "If I had known then what I know now" type of post.

I'm going to be meeting with an attachment therapist for the first time and I am terrified of making the wrong choice. I wanted to pick the brains of other parents who have been there done that before and what signs (good or bad) were there for them.

If you've already done this, I'm sorry I missed it. :-) I've read the posts that you have labeled and the Nancy Thomas stuff.

Thanks



I am a step-mom to twins, age 13 w/ RAD....I'v...

2010-03-18T16:13:48.979-05:00

I am a step-mom to twins, age 13 w/ RAD....I've been searching sites trying to find info as well as help/susport.We have a in-home cousler...but funding has been lost so we only have 2 more months w/ her. I would love to hear from others!!!jenniferlindley69@yahoo.com



Hey, Brenda and all you other RAD moms. I've g...

2010-03-15T22:01:07.862-05:00

Hey, Brenda and all you other RAD moms. I've got a new RAD mom that I met today and I think she could use some encouragement. Would you please send an email to her at my address rjeremiah2911@embarqmail.com or leave a comment on the post I just made on my blog? http://leadlearners.blogspot.com/2010/03/tea-time.html

Thanks a million.



I so appreciate your constant message to remember ...

2010-03-14T11:13:42.042-05:00

I so appreciate your constant message to remember that it's so hard to be our kids and to never give up. It's too easy to lose that truth in the day to day insanity.



Anonymous, I would call the boys parents and ask t...

2010-03-13T20:57:56.619-06:00

Anonymous,
I would call the boys parents and ask them to tell you about the gun. If it said not for 18, even if it is a pellet gun they could hit someone in the eye, or ear and cause some major damage. It isn't a toy. It shoots out little plastic balls (if what you are talking about is a pellet gun) so they don't pierce the skin but 8 is too young to use it wisely. I'd call.



Do you know anything else about the gun in the pic...

2010-03-13T08:44:25.094-06:00

Do you know anything else about the gun in the picture? Ironically, my ten year old son with an attachment disorder went to a neighbors house the other day without asking and when I found him he was playing with a gun that looked just like that one. I thought at first that it was a water gun but when I picked it up I saw that it said "for 18 years and up" on the side. When I asked my son about it he said he thought it was a toy. The boy that gave the gun to my son was only about 8 years old.



Nice brief and this fill someone in on helped me a...

2010-03-12T10:35:57.077-06:00

Nice brief and this fill someone in on helped me alot in my college assignement. Thank you as your information.



shame is so powerful for RAD kids, I had no idea u...

2010-03-11T08:54:07.665-06:00

shame is so powerful for RAD kids, I had no idea unitl I saw it in action. I hope that Teddy is able to work through it.



I am so sorry Teddy is hurting. I am sending you h...

2010-03-11T08:22:02.221-06:00

I am so sorry Teddy is hurting. I am sending you hugs and prayers because not only do you hurt for him. but you have to clean up the mess.